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I have a kid. And that is the only reason I do not abandon my pointless work.

Anyone like this do it, and survive? I would love to see more motivational stories.

Those who transitioned to professional clown work appreciated!



I just switched jobs because of my daughter. Left a job that I liked but didn't pay very well so I could stop having to work 2 shifts. I'm a programmer btw. It drives me nuts everyday, but this keeps me going https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/thumb/a/ab/Simpson...


This is a huge issue. One you have kids, it becomes far more difficult to walk away from your income, even for a transitional period. Another complicating factor is health care.

I'm always interested in these stories, kids or none, but I think it changes the equation dramatically. Like you, I'd really like to read more stories about people who did this with the additional obligation of supporting children.


Perhaps having a kid should motivate you more. Can I myself in the mirror in the morning? But also, can I look my kid in the eye and tell her to do the right thing, while not doing so myself? And what are you teaching your child by financing better education or better healthcare for her through a job that may be increasing inequality for other children, thereby reducing the quality of life, education and healthcare for them?

I'm not saying those are the choices you are making. But on the other hand, a lot of people are but cognitive dossonance prevents them from seeing that.

Lookup "The Banality of Systemic Evil" and "Matthew Effect" for more thoughts.


Achieving yourself and seeking fun in work comes after you put food on the table and provide safe home to your dependant. The question for many is not whether providing better teaching, better healthcare, but to provide teaching or healthcare at all if you loose or give up your job.


I'd recommend asking for all stores - both successes and failures. It's most helpful if you have the full picture!




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