I lived in Raleigh, NC for a while, and I found it very "purple" with people mostly coexisting amicably. I've been gone a while so I don't know if that aspect of things has changed, but it's a very nice place to live, so well worth checking out :)
I worked one day a week in an office in San Jose and a guy wore his MAGA hat to work the day after Trump won in 2016, he got about 25% of the vote in Santa Clara county so plenty of them here. There are also a few Trump emblazoned trucks/houses if you happen to spend much time in rural areas outside of San Jose/San Francisco. Also, my local little town newspaper had a front page story about a couple that were GOP supporters that went to the Trump inauguration.
To me, that's really really broken.
I'd love to live somewhere "purple", where people of all opinions coexist peacefully. Do places like that still exist?