I've been working full-time on a rather large Java project for several years.
I have no experience working at startups or real-world knowledge of putting together an office and hiring people, so I don't have a good idea of how to get from guy-in-a-room to office-full-of-people, which is going to have to happen.
I'm not very good at networking, I'm more of a head-down sort of guy and have too many responsibilities just handling the work itself. I'm also pushing myself extremely hard, isolated, and overstressed, and I'm not an easy person to deal with socially. This is a reality that I can't easily change as long as I've got my nose to the grindstone.
I have very little funds other than what I need to pay living expenses for myself, which was originally personal savings, and now loans from friends and family.
I don't believe I can/should get investment capital given my lack of leadership and business experience.
The limited experiences I've had with investors has not gone well, I believe in myself and my product 100% but I'm not socially aggressive or good at pitching, and I am easily frustrated by their standard political procedures.
I'd like some realistic advice on how to take off with this. My current plan is to launch it myself and grow organically, but that isn't a solution in itself, it will just give me a little more cash in my bank account and I'm in the same situation.
I need a building with desks and equipment. I need HR. I need Legal. I need DevOps. I don't know what else I need, because I've never worked at a startup.
How does a guy with a product in my situation realistically go about getting this stuff done?
Investors are probably going to shy away from something that's been around for several years with no money.