Imagine that you provide all your preferences and quirks and whatnot to a bot. Others do as well.

Then you have the bots date. And have the bots do your quirks to be judged by the other bot.

After your bots date for sme period of time, successfully - without earning bad-relationship-simulation-karma, the bots can agree to introduce the real yous to one another. Your relationship bot pre-screened the other for you....

I hope I have some time to write a short story about this.